author:Vanessa simon
Nowadays, young people are confused to find a partner, and even some people rely on their mood directly. I received a contribution from a fan today. Her article is about the criteria for choosing a partner. I hope you can benefit from it.
Nowadays, the social environment makes most people live under great pressure, temptation and desire, which is not caused by someone, but determined by the big environment. All we can do is struggle to be what we want to be.
For us, marriage is no longer the words of matchmaker and parents. Many people have their own views on marriage. Of course, some people have no idea what kind of partner they want and what kind of life they want after marriage.
Here are some criteria for choosing a life partner
- Is communication smooth
The most important thing for two people to be together is to talk. The usual communication differences can best show whether the two of you communicate smoothly. It is suggested to think more from the perspective of the other party and strive for unity of opinion.
- Can economic pressure be tolerated
Before you get married, you just care about your own life. There's no pressure. After marriage, all aspects of the pressure will appear, to consider whether you can bear together.
Whether the mortgage can be repaid on time, whether cosmetics and high-heeled shoes you want to buy can be bought as soon as you want, and whether there are enough funds and conditions for parents to enjoy their old age and their children's living well.
The economic foundation determines the superstructure. I hope you will carefully consider it. After all, money can solve 90% of the world's problems.
- Can he / she withstand the temptation of the outside world
Men like to stare at showy young girls, and women may be attracted to courteous men.
In the 1940s and 1950s, men who became rich wanted to go outside to find beautiful girls. Now there are jobs everywhere, but there are still girls who choose not to work hard to get rich people's living conditions.
Whether or not to endure their restless heart, which is particularly critical to the happiness of marriage, whether men or women.
- Does he / she have a sense of family responsibility
Do you do housework together? Do you care about each other's parents? Can you bear the burden together when there are big waves.
- Does his / her parents really accept you
When you are with the other party's parents, do you feel relaxed or depressed? Is his parents tough on you like a bone in the egg or warm like a spring breeze.
- Similar interests and similar habits
Money concept, life concept, film type, etc. do you have the same interests.
The above is a fan's summary of several criteria for choosing a partner. Of course, there are other aspects to consider, such as personality, temper and personality.
Ladies and gentlemen, please don't be confused in the face of marriage. Marriage is an emotional journey, and the scenery of this journey depends entirely on what kind of partner you choose.
I hope you can understand the importance of your partner through this article, and also examine whether the other party is suitable for you from these aspects.
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