Why are some relationships more honest than others? Why are some couples more truthful with each other while others like to deceive their partner? Nobody deserves to be lied to, but there is no doubt that women are telling lies considerably and often. But so men do the same.
If you have trust issues in your relationship, in general, a woman may lie to you. Trust is something that you must build from the beginning of the relationship. Even though, a lot of people say ‘‘white lies'' to make others feel better. Some women lie because, as caring creatures, they want to spare the feelings of the man they are dating or seeing.
So, here are some common lies told by women that you should know. Someday you might hear them from your partner and it is better to know their real meaning.
1. You're perfect. I love you just the way you are and I wouldn't change a thing about you. Let's be serious; nobody is perfect. At the beginning of a relationship, all of them say this because they don't know you very well but after some time will find something that needs changing. So, if she tells you something like this, don't be too enthusiastic because she finds you perfect just for a couple of days, and after that, she will ask you to change.
2. You're right. Every time you are arguing with you're girlfriend usually ends up telling you that you are right. Maybe this makes you feel proud of yourself, but you have to know that this is a big lie. She said this just to make you shut up, even if she didn't consider that you're right. She knows that after a while you will see that she was right, and maybe waiting to apologize.
3. Nothing is wrong. The most common lie '' I'm fine'' when asked if there is something wrong is the most used by women. You see that she is upset, she is acting strange or doesn't want to talk to you too much ask her what is the problem she says that everything is fine. They don't want to tell the real truth but they are expecting men to figure out that something is wrong and that they had a mistake with something.
4. I do love sports, honey. Maybe she agrees to stay and watch with you every week at a football game but this doesn't mean that she likes it. She accepts to do this just to show you that she is different from other girls and you have common interests. You may be thinking that you have found the perfect girl for you, because not many of them would like to stay to watch football, but don't be too happy because after a while she might have enough and get angry every time you sit down to watch a game.
5. I like spending time with your friends. In the beginning, this is ok, but not too much. Even if they are good friends of you, she would like to spend more time alone with you and not with your friends. If she hasn't told you already this, she will ask you to keep visits from your buddies at a minimum and then she might keep pretending she loves them.
6. Your family is adorable, so I like spending time with your family. The truth? Maybe twice a month. Think about it. Do you think that she likes to spend time with your family where everybody is criticizing her and watching her every move? She agrees to spend time with your family when is necessary but she doesn't do it with much pleasure even if she is pretending in front of you that she likes them.
7. Your bank account doesn't matter. I hope you don't believe this. We all know that this is a lie. All women want a guy who is financially stable and independent, a guy who can assure her a future with no financial problems. This doesn't mean that you have to be very rich to have a girlfriend, but you have to have some money.
8. It doesn't bother me if you look after women or go with your boys at strip clubs. This is too good to be true. Even if she says that this is ok, she will be upset that you want to go. They hate to feel second best to a night out with the guys and accept this to make themselves seem less pathetically needy. If you choose to go, she will make you a lot of comments after, so you better think twice before you go.
9. You are very good in bed. If she chooses to speak about this topic without you asking her, you don't have to believe all she says. If she starts to compliment you about your sexual experience it doesn't mean that she believes that. Often a woman who cares about a man tells him all that she knows he wants to hear just to make him feel good about himself. So think about your girlfriend, your relationship, and your sexual experience, and see if you deserve compliments on this topic.
10. Don't worry, it happens to everyone. If you just make a mistake or fail in bed, you might hear this lie from your girlfriend. She doesn't want to show you how upset she is with you but in her mind thinks something else. I wouldn't be too sure that your mistake is forgiven and I would worry about not making too many '' accidents'' like these.
With all these presented, now will be easier for you to know when your girlfriend is lying. As you see, what a woman says is not what she thinks.
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