How Long Does It Take To Fall In Love?
By Amy North
Women's Dating Coach
For Romeo and Juliet it took about five minutes, but we all know how that turned out.
The boring, real answer is that it varies. There are no hard and fast rules in love and this is no exception.
If he’s not taking you seriously or is unwilling to be exclusive, try my Devotion System program. I’ve spent years researching how to make a man stick by your side for good.
But as I’ve said, don’t rush it. If he says he loves you on the first date, he’s either lying, he doesn’t know what love is, or he’s a few cards short of a full deck.
It takes time to build the kind of love that lasts.
Don’t worry about when he says “I love you.” While it is an important step, it’s not the best way to tell if what you have is real. What’s important is whether or not the relationship is moving forward.
Ask yourself these questions
- Does he spend time with you?
- Has he hung out with your friends and family?
- Can you rely on him when you’re in a jam?
- Does he open up to you about his life, his hopes, and his dreams?
- Does he do all he can to make you happy?
- Do you have a future together?